How to get a divorce if they refuse

[FerneBrandt]

I have been living in an unhappy marriage for many years.

Our marriage was very unstable and toxic.

   This morning I read the article https://onlinedivorcecalifornia.com/how-...alifornia/ and wanted to know if anyone else had a similar experience. If this time I can talk him into a consultation for real, should I try or just put my hands up?